Кому и что дарить?

Члену семьи дарить легче всего, потому что известно, в чем он нуждается и что принесет ему наибольшую радость. В семье разрешается дарить всевозможные подарки — начиная с цветов и кончая таким интимным подарком, как нижнее белье. К подаркам не относятся хозяйственные предметы, предназначенные для пользования всеми членами семьи. Пусть не думает муж, что если он вручает супруге (сын или дочь — матери) кастрюлю, сковородку или какую-либо иную нужную в хозяйстве вещь, то тем самым он делает ей подарок. Точно так же мужу не доставит никакого удовольствия получить в подарок от жены поварешку или половую щетку.

Среди близких разрешается выбирать большой подарок вместе с тем, кому он предназначен. Например, муж, который хочет подарить жене отрез на платье либо пальто, шубу или иную ценную вещь, сделает правильно, если предоставит ей возможность помочь ему в выборе. Особенно это важно при выборе одежды, где имеют значение цвет, покрой, фактура ткани. Поскольку в подобной ситуации пропадает элемент неожиданности, хорошо к ценному подарку незаметно добавить какую-нибудь мелочь. Приятно найти в кармане нового пальто хотя бы маленькую плитку шоколада или, открывая пакет, обнаружить вместе с отрезом на платье красивый платок, брошь или что-либо в этом роде. Любящая и внимательная жена не боится избаловать своего мужа и время от времени тоже делает ему подарки. Рубашка, галстук, носки, носовые платки никогда не бывают лишними.

Подарок ребенку. Детей нужно с малых лет приучать оказывать знаки внимания окружающим. Они должны усвоить, что для того, чтобы доставить другим удовольствие, нужно потрудиться. Они могут что-нибудь нарисовать, связать, вышить и т. д. Малыш может выучить стишок или песенку, чтобы исполнить в день рождения матери или отца, школьник на уроке труда смастерить какую-нибудь нужную вещь или безделушку — все зависит от индивидуальных способностей ребенка.

Не следует давать ребенку деньги, чтобы он купил подарок для матери или отца. Разумеется, когда ребе нок идет на день рождения к товарищу, родители помогают выбрать подарок и дают деньги на него.

Возникает вопрос, разрешать ли ученику дарить что-нибудь своему учителю? Это нецелесообразно и непедагогично. Не у всех учеников, вернее, не у всех родителей одинаковые материальные возможности, поэтому подобные подношения невольно дифференцируют детей, ставя подчас в неловкое положение и учителей.

Пока ученик учится в школе, ни он, ни его родители не должны делать учителю никаких подарков. Дарить можно, когда ученик окончит школу. Такое выражение благодарности приятнее и для учителя, потому что в этом он видит искреннюю признательность.

Также Детям дарят подарки, соответствующие их возрасту.

Игрушки выбирают с учетом их познавательной и воспитательной роли. (Если не справляетесь сами, попросите совета у продавца.) Игрушки — духовная пища ребенка. Здесь, как, впрочем, и во всем остальном, следует соблюдать чувство меры. Пресыщенность вредна детям, она порождает самодовольство, ограниченность, убежденность в своей исключительности. (А у других нет того, что есть у меня! Что захочу — то получу!).

Игрушки, предназначенные для малыша, должны быть легко моющимися, радовать глаз цветом и формой. Ребенку с раннего возраста можно дарить доступные его пониманию книжки с картинками, тем самым прививая ему любовь к книгам, приучать бережно обращаться с ними. С раннего возраста можно дарить и принадлежности для рисования, вначале карандаши и мелки, а затем и акварельные краски (не раньше, чем в 4—5 лет), пластилин для лепки и т. п. Школьникам дарят соответствующие возрасту книги для чтения, школьные принадлежности, настольные игры и пр. Кроме игрушек, книг и предметов для рисования, детям нравится получать в подарок сладости, фрукты и одежду. Даже двухлетняя девочка сумеет оценить красивые туфли, платьице, ленточку, передник, шапочку и т. д. Дарят детям и цветы.

Что касается упаковки, то она должна быть красивой и «детской». Особенно за этим нужно следить, покупая коробки со сладостями.

Друзьям, как и родным, дарить несложно, их вкус и желания, как правило, известны. Здесь выбор велик — от хозяйственных вещей до предметов туалета. Не всегда умеют выбрать подарок влюбленные. Их щедрость, вдохновляемая чувством, мешает им подчас задуматься над тем, как будет воспринят тот или иной подарок. Женщина всегда вправе отказаться от интимного подарка, сделанного мужчиной (белье, чулки, купальный костюм, туфли и т. д.), а также от ценного подарка (меха, кольца и т. д.). Подарки до женитьбы не должны выходить за рамки обычных знаков внимания.

Женщина не делает первая мужчине подарков за исключением его дня рождения. Если же они давно знакомы, она может оказывать маленькие знаки внимания — подарить книгу, галстук, вещицу, которая, как она заведомо знает, доставит ему удовольствие. Предметы туалета, такие, как белье, носки, рубашки, шляпу и т. д. (галстук считается украшением), дарят только мужу или близким родственникам.

Что подарить человеку, у которого «все есть»?

На самом деле вариантов существует множество. Например, цветы, коробку дорогих конфет известной фабрики (развесные конфеты никогда не дарят), коньяк, шампанское, набор марочных вин. Учтите, что бутылку без фирменной упаковки дарить не принято. Напомним также, что не следует дарить крепкие напитки дамам.

Что подарить человеку, которого плохо знаешь?

Если же вы не настолько хорошо знаете вкусы человека, к которому приглашены, то есть и более общие подарки - цветы, конфеты, сувениры, письменные принадлежности, изделия из керамики и пр. Что бы вы ни подарили, добавьте к подарку теплое, нестандартное поздравление.

Можно ли дарить деньги?

Несомненно, такой подарок будет всегда полезным. Правда, как раз эта откровенная практичность чаще всего лишает подарок привлекательности. В качестве обычного подарка деньги можно вручать только в крайнем случае, в основном близким людям, да и, пожалуй, еще молодоженам на свадьбу.

Молодоженам часто дарят деньги. Это очень практично, но если вы избрали этот вид подарка, сумма должна быть достаточно значительной. Если же ваш бюджет этого не позволяет, приобретите недорогую вещь. Деньги передают молодым в белом, незаклеенном конверте без надписи, по возможности в новых, крупных купюрах, сопровождая словами: "На новый жизненный путь".

Деньги - неподходящий подарок к свадьбе, если вы приглашены к людям старше вас, особенно если их материальное благополучие очевидно; не годится дарить деньги также в случае краткого и поверхностного знакомства с виновниками торжества.

 

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